Boy Troubles. I would like advice, please?

well, when they ask just say ok. quick and easy and don't think about anything besides saying those words. From the time to the date, don't bother to think about it which helps you feel confidence. When the date come, just go instead of trying so hard to prepare. Just think, "I don't care. I just want to go out and see what's out there!" Also, to help with building confidence is a process and requires methods. What you can do is to talk to people who you meet at a grocery, public places...It helps tremendously.